Posted by
on Sep 11th, 2012 and filed under
The Genius Siblings, Jesse And Sunny, Are Here To Give You Their Five Most Useful Tips On How To Get A Christian Boyfriend/Girlfriend!
My boyfriend and I were watching a divorce court episode about two people living together where the guy wanted to have threesome and the girl complained about it. Then my fiance went to say ‘I wanted a threesome!’ I was shocked to hear it from him. I never thought that it would ever cross his mind. So I asked with seriousness if he was serious about it. He didn’t answer me but was just smiling. I knew then that he was serious about it otherwise he would have said no right away knowing that I got pretty upset about it. I asked him ‘don’t you think it’s wrong?’ he said ‘not if everybody thinks it’s okay’. I know we have differences in our values but not to the extent of that. We are both Christians but I am more passionate about faith that him. But I didn’t think that even people sharing same faith can have different view about things like fidelity and monogamy.
I was so broken when he said this that now I’m starting to think that it’s a red flag for me to break off our engagement. I don’t know what to do
More Pages:
- Im really confused…who do i forgive?
- Dating: I Really Need Some Advice And Some Support.. I Cheated On My Boyfriend? (3/7/2012)
- Dating: Is He Interested In Me Or Just Playing Games ? (5/2/2012)
- Entertainment: I Was Told At Work To Choose My Personal Things Or My Job Is That Legal? (9/14/2011)
- Dating: First Date Ideas? (10/9/2011)
Most guys want a three some but it is a matter of they want to push you into it or not.If he just tells you this and does nothing then you have nothing to worry about.It’s just a fantasy.
I told my wife that I wanted a three some one time and she used it to turn me on some times talking like we were in a three some and boy did it turn me on.
Well at least he is being honest and up front with you… if your not willing to try a threesome, then you should break up with him …
Why would you ever do that over a thing he SUGGESTED. he isnt saying you have to im sure if you said no and explained you dont belive in bedding anything get with him then he would understand. to be honest. Must he share your belief? you can say no. but think of him when you make your decision. sex isnt up to just one person in a relationship. think of what he wants. and if you are willing to break off the engagement over that then you shouldnt be allowed to get married.
Get rid of him fast. Even if you have to move. This might be your
opportunity to go to Southern California or New Mexico.
This won’t change. And Oh yes, ppl have VERY different views. Sounds like you have lots to talk about before you tie the knot. Also, please realize ladies, that you cannot talk a man INTO or OUT of something. Just like you; you are going to do what you want. Regardless of someone else’s views. You have your own views; you OWN them. So, if your guy doesnt seem that he wants to change his mind, then you have to understand that there are BILLIONS of men in this world.. Yup billions. And one of them will have the same views and values that you do. NOT slightly different like you have now. Good luck.
Just ignore it, and if he brings it up again, set the record straight about how you feel about it.
All guys dream sexual fantasy is a threesome. I don’t think saying it to the woman I’m about to marry is a good idea, but just so you know, guys like threesomes.
Easy way to solve this one, is ask him which one of his best guy friends he wants to have over for the 3 some with you.